None of which involve eating a donut off anything.
Here’s what they had to say about making it even more awesome, whether you’re on the giving or receiving end. Because when it comes to giving head, everyone should be thoroughly enjoying themselves.
Disclaimer: There’s probably no list of tips where every item will appeal to every person. So take what you like and leave the rest. Also, it’s important to talk about any new or different sex things with your partner before trying it. Consent is everything; please enjoy these tips responsibly!
Find a position that works for both of you.
“If I’m giving head to a guy then I’ll sometimes ask him to sit on the edge of the bed while I do it. It’s more comfortable for me, lets me deep throat more, and he gets the aesthetic of me kneeling in front of him. It means that I can look up and he can have his hands in my hair, too.”
Tell your partner what you like and ask what they like — either before or during.
“Talk to them! Ask them if they like what you’re doing, ask them what they want. Have an open conversation and keep that conversation going throughout the sexual experience. But most importantly, don’t do anything you aren’t comfortable with. You should always feel comfortable enough with anyone you’re having any type of sex with to talk openly about your personal limits.”
“Eye contact! It’s the most important part and can feel really intimidating but if you can stomach to look your partner in the eye, it really makes all the difference!”